Advanced Communication in Open Relationships
Deepening communication skills specifically for navigating complex non-monogamous dynamics.
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Welcome to Advanced Communication in Open Relationships
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Prerequisites
- •communication foundations
- •introduction to ethical non monogamy
- •managing multiple relationships
What You'll Learn
- Navigate disclosure vs. privacy in open relationships
- Develop advanced negotiation skills for complex situations
- Communicate effectively with metamours
- Discuss safer sex practices across relationships
- Support partners' growth while navigating change
Recommended Resources
The Ethical Slut
by Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton
Practical advice on non-monogamous communication.
Rewriting the Rules
by Meg-John Barker
Reimagining relationships.
Crucial Conversations
by Kerry Patterson et al.
Tools for talking when stakes are high.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much detail should I share about my other relationships?
There's no right answer—only what works for you and your partners. Options range from don't ask, don't tell to full transparency. Negotiate based on your actual needs, not what you think you 'should' want. Be honest about what information you need and what would distress you.
What if my metamour and I don't get along?
That's okay. You don't have to be friends with your metamours. Basic civility and respect are enough. Address any conflicts directly with them, not through your shared partner. Your partner should stay out of the middle and not badmouth either of you to the other.
How do we renegotiate agreements without making everything feel unstable?
Renegotiate intentionally, not constantly. Have regular scheduled reviews (annually or quarterly) rather than constant renegotiation. Frame changes as growth and evolution, not failure. Remember that adapting to meet current needs is more stable than rigidly holding to agreements that no longer serve.