Consent Toolkit
42 practical resources for every consent situation
Scripts, examples, checklists, and guides to help you navigate consent confidently and respectfully. Learn what to say, how to read signals, and handle any situation.
Ready-to-Use Scripts
Exact phrases for asking consent, responding to requests, and handling any situation.
Real Conversation Examples
See how consent conversations actually sound with real dialogue examples.
Interactive Checklists
Pre-intimacy checklists, during-sex guides, and aftercare steps.
Scenario Guides
Navigate tricky situations with clear do's and don'ts for common scenarios.
Asking for a Kiss
Main Script:
Can I kiss you?
Alternative:
I'd really like to kiss you right now. Is that okay?
Escalating Physical Contact
Main Script:
Is it okay if I touch you here?
Alternative:
I want to touch your [body part]. Can I?
Initiating Sex
Main Script:
Do you want to have sex?
Alternative:
I'm really feeling tonight. Are you on the same page?
Trying Something New
Main Script:
I've been thinking about trying [activity]. Would you be open to that?
Alternative:
There's something I'd like to explore with you. No pressure, but can we talk about it?
Checking In During Sex
Main Script:
Is this okay? Can I keep going?
Alternative:
Does this feel good for you?
Saying Yes Enthusiastically
Main Script:
Yes, I'd love that
Alternative:
Definitely yes / Please do / I want that
Saying No Gently
Main Script:
Not right now, but thank you for asking
Alternative:
I'm not feeling up for that tonight / Can we just cuddle instead?
Saying No Firmly
Main Script:
No, I don't want to do that
Alternative:
Please stop / I'm not comfortable with this
Requesting to Pause
Main Script:
Can we pause for a second?
Alternative:
I need a moment / Let's slow down
Why Consent Skills Matter
Prevents Harm
Clear consent prevents misunderstandings and ensures everyone feels safe and respected.
Builds Trust
When consent is handled well, partners feel more secure and connected.
Enhances Pleasure
Enthusiastic consent creates the freedom to fully enjoy intimacy without worry.
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